Monday, August 31, 2009

The Women’s Crusade

Dear Friends:

This is a long piece but it very much worth taking the time to read. It includes powerful stories of truly heroic women, as well as thorough analysis and innovative ideas to encourage and inspire all of us to do more for women and girls around the world.

Abolition!

Lisa

"The global statistics on the abuse of girls are numbing. It appears that more girls and women are now missing from the planet, precisely because they are female, than men were killed on the battlefield in all the wars of the 20th century. The number of victims of this routine "gendercide" far exceeds the number of people who were slaughtered in all the genocides of the 20th century."

http://www.nytimes.com/2009/08/23/magazine/23Women-t.html?pagewanted=1&_r=1#
The New York Times
August 23, 2009
The Women’s Crusade
By
NICHOLAS D. KRISTOF and SHERYL WuDUNN

IN THE 19TH CENTURY, the paramount moral challenge was slavery. In the 20th century, it was totalitarianism. In this century, it is the brutality inflicted on so many women and girls around the globe: sex trafficking, acid attacks, bride burnings and mass rape.

Yet if the injustices that women in poor countries suffer are of paramount importance, in an economic and geopolitical sense the opportunity they represent is even greater. "Women hold up half the sky," in the words of a Chinese saying, yet that’s mostly an aspiration: in a large slice of the world, girls are uneducated and women marginalized, and it’s not an accident that those same countries are disproportionately mired in poverty and riven by fundamentalism and chaos. There’s a growing recognition among everyone from the
World Bank to the U.S. military’s Joint Chiefs of Staff to aid organizations like CARE that focusing on women and girls is the most effective way to fight global poverty and extremism. That’s why foreign aid is increasingly directed to women. The world is awakening to a powerful truth: Women and girls aren’t the problem; they’re the solution.
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Child Bride's Nightmare After Divorce

By Paula Newton
CNN
SANA'A, Yemen (CNN) -- It is midday and girls are flooding out of school, but Nujood Ali is not among them.

We find her at the family's two-room house in an impoverished suburb of the city where Nujood is angry, combative and yelling. Tension surrounds the home like a noose.

After much arguing with family members, Nujood finally grabs her veil and agrees to sit down with CNN. Her presence is grudging, although CNN had got permission in advance to see how the girl who rocked a nation by demanding a divorce was shaping up.

Nujood is very different from the girl we first met nearly two years ago. Then, there was no doubt the 10-year-old was every inch a child. She was the very portrait of innocence: A shy smile, a playful nature and a whimsical giggle.

That picture was very much at odds with the brutal story of abuse she endured as a child bride who fought for a divorce and is now still fighting. Watch Nujood tell her story to CNN on World's Untold Stories

Nujood says she remains relieved and gratified that her act of defiance -- which led to appearances at awards shows and on TV -- had paid off.

The story was supposed to end with the divorce and an innocent but determined girl allowed to fully embrace the childhood she fought so hard to keep.

Instead, there has been no fairytale ending for Nujood.

There was, though, a stunning transformation. Nujood went from being a victim and child bride to a portrait of courage and triumph. Her inspirational story was told and re-told around the world, but at home all was not well.

In the fall of 2008 Nujood was recognized as Glamour Magazine's Woman of the Year, alongside some of the world's most impressive women. She even attended the ceremony in New York and was applauded by women from Hillary Clinton to Nicole Kidman.

There is a tell-all book which is to be published in more than 20 languages, and the author says Nujood will receive a good portion of the royalties.

Nujood's strength was celebrated by complete strangers. But what did all the fame do for the one person it was meant to transform?

"There is no change at all since going on television. I hoped there was someone to help us, but we didn't find anyone to help us. It hasn't changed a thing. They said they were going to help me and no one has helped me. I wish I had never spoken to the media," Nujood says bitterly.

There was never going to be a fortune. Generous people have donated thousands so Nujood could go to a private school, but she refuses to attend, according to Shada Nasser, the human rights lawyer who took on the child's divorce case.

"I know Nujood was absent from the school. I spoke with her father and her family. And I ask them to control her and ask her to go every day to school. But they said, 'You know we don't have the money for the transportation. Don't have the money for the food,' " says Nasser.

She believes Nujood is being victimized by her own family because they believe Nujood's fame should bring them fortune.

Nujood's parents say they've received nothing, and in the meantime Nujood stews wondering out loud how everything turned out this way.

"I was happy I got divorced but I'm sad about the way it turned out after I went on television," she said adding that she feels like an outcast even among her family and friends.

Nujood was pulled out of school in early 2008 and married off by her own parents to a man she says was old and ugly. And yet, as a wife, Nujood was spared nothing.

"I didn't want to sleep with him but he forced me to, he hit me, insulted me" said Nujood. She said being married and living as a wife at such a young age was sheer torture.


Nujood described how she was beaten and raped and how, after just a few weeks of marriage, she turned to her family to try to escape the arrangement. But her parents told her they could not protect her, that she belonged to her husband now and had to accept her fate.


CNN tried to obtain comment from Nujood's husband and his family but they declined.

Nujood's parents, like many others in Yemen, struck a social bargain. More than half of all young Yemeni girls are married off before the age of 18, many times to older men, some with more than one wife.

It means the girls are no longer a financial or moral burden to their parents. But Nujood's parents say they did not expect Nujood's new husband to demand sex from his child bride.

To escape, Nujood hailed a taxi -- for the first time in her life -- to get across town to the central courthouse where she sat on a bench and demanded to see a judge.


After several hours, a judge finally went to see her. "And he asked me, 'what do you want' and I said 'I want a divorce' and he said 'you're married?' And I said 'yes.'" says Nujood.

Nujood's father and husband were arrested until the divorce hearing, and Nujood was put in the care of Nasser.

Indeed, it seems the judge had heard enough of the abuse to agree with Nujood that she should get her divorce.

But based on the principles of Shariah law, her husband was compensated, not prosecuted. Nujood was ordered to pay him more than $200 -- a huge amount in a country where the United Nations Development Programme says 15.7 percent of the population lives on less than $1 a day.

Khadije Al Salame is working to help Nujood get her life back. Now a Yemeni diplomat, 30 years ago she too was a child bride. But when she left her husband, she did not have to endure the publicity that now haunts Nujood.

She said: "It's good to talk about Nujood and to have her story come out, but the problem is it's too much pressure on her.

"She doesn't understand what's going on. She's a little girl and we have to understand as a media people that we should leave her alone now. If we really love Nujood then we should just let her go to school and continue with her life, because education is the most important thing for her."

To get her divorce, Nujood showed a character and strength not easily expressed by women in Yemen, let alone a 10-year-old child bride. But she will need to muster all that strength and more if she's to finally reclaim her life.

Nujood told us she thought the divorce would be the end of her struggle and she's still angry that it turned out to be just the beginning.

CNN producer Schams Elwazer contributed to this report
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Slow Progress Against Human Trafficking

RIGHTS-MEXICO:Slow Progress Against Human Trafficking
Emilio Godoy

MEXICO CITY, Aug 27 (IPS) - Despite progress in bringing Mexican law into compliance with the international treaty against human trafficking, little has been achieved so far in this country in terms of prosecutions and convictions of traffickers, protection of victims and prevention of this increasingly widespread crime, says a new report released in the Mexican capital Thursday.

The "Human Trafficking Assessment Tool Report for Mexico" was produced by the American Bar Association’s Rule of Law Initiative (ABA ROLI).

"So far there have been no convictions, which is a very serious problem," attorney Gretchen Kuhner, one of the authors of the report, told IPS. "But the law against trafficking in Mexico is very new, and more time is needed to evaluate its implementation."

The Mexican Congress passed the Law to Prevent and Penalise Trafficking in Persons, creating federal mechanisms for the prevention, protection, and prosecution of human trafficking, in November 2007, although the regulations for the law were not issued until February 2009.

The law provides for both territorial and extraterritorial jurisdiction over trafficking in persons, which is classified as a felony, the ABA ROLI report says.

Based on 78 interviews with experts and government officials carried out between January and June 2008, the report found legal inconsistencies such as limiting the definition of "trafficking victim" to passive subjects of the crime of trafficking who participate in criminal proceedings in Mexico or abroad.
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My Friend went to Thailand....

Dear Friends:

Here's some news that I'm sure will get your blood pressure up -- I know mine is. There is a T-shirt available for purchase on The Onion website featuring the slogan, "My Friend Went to Thailand and All I Got Was This Lousy Prostitute." However, if you look at the image of the T-shirt online, it actually reads, "My Friend Went to Thailand and All I Got Was This Lousy Kidnapped Prostitute." Either way such a message is utterly appalling. It's hard to believe it, but there are actually people out there who not only dreamed up the T-shirt slogan, but also thought it would be a good idea to make money on such T-shirts.

Wow, it's not bad enough that millions of women and girls are sexually trafficked, rape, subjected to all kinds of physical and verbal abuse, afflicted by a host of diseases, even murdered, or tossed aside to fend for themselves when they are no longer "marketable"; now some jerks have to make jokes about it! These people actually have the nerve to mock the abuse and exploitation of women and children.

Just so you know, I've already called the store and confirmed that the shirt if for real, and that is for sale. Interestingly, I was not allowed to speak to a manager. Evidently the store has already received some complaints, but I think they need a few thousand more.

So, won't you please take a few moments and call 1-800-280-1791 to voice your objections? This type of callousness and outright mockery of exploitation cannot go unanswered. Please forward this email on to your friends and family. We need as many people calling as possible. Let's make this the last time The Onion ever sells a shirt like this.

Abolition!

Lisa


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6 Arrested in Houston Prostitution Case

Some great news. A major domestic sex trafficking ring has been busted. Notice the assorted fronts used as cover for their illegal prostitution enterprise.

Abolition!

Lisa


6 arrested in Houston prostitution case
Published: Aug. 25, 2009 at 5:35 PM

Six people have been charged in Houston with sex trafficking of women and children, U.S. and local police authorities said Tuesday.

The U.S. Justice Department said it was the largest domestic sex-trafficking case ever prosecuted in the Southern U.S. District of Texas.

Five of the six were arrested late Monday and early Tuesday in a coordinated effort between federal and local law enforcement, after the unsealing of an Aug. 4 indictment Tuesday.

The indictment charges John Butler, 47, William Hornbeak, 34, Jamine Lake, 27, Andre McDaniels, 39, and Kristen Land, 28, all of Houston; and Ronnie Presley, 35, formerly of Houston and now of Tulsa, Okla., with conspiracy to traffic women and children for the purposes of commercialized sex, sex trafficking of children, sex trafficking by force, fraud and coercion, transportation of minors, and coercion and enticement, the Justice Department said.

Presley is a fugitive.

The indictment alleges the six operated commercialized sex businesses often disguised as modeling studios, health spas, massage parlors and bikini bars in Houston, and used sexually oriented publications and Web sites to advertise. Their alleged enterprise transported women and minors to and from the Houston area, and had ties to Kansas, Nevada, Arizona and Florida.

Alleged victims included women and minors as young as 16 who were routinely beaten and threatened and were denied any of the proceeds from prostitution, the department said.

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Tuesday, August 25, 2009

White Ribbon Against Pornography

Dear Friends:

Attached is a flyer you can use to promote this year's White Ribbon Against Pornography week being observed October 25 through November 1, 2009.

The White Ribbon Against Pornography Week (WRAP) is intended to educate the public about the extent of our culture's pornography problem. WRAP week creates a useful opportunity for clergy and others to raise the issue of pornography within the Church, and to call all Christians to renewed lives of sexual purity.

See the flyer for ways you can help raise awareness about the devastating influences of pornography during WRAP week and throughout the year.

WRAP Flyer

Abolition!

Lisa

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Sunday, August 23, 2009

RIGHTS-PARAGUAY: NGO Offers Girls a Way Out of Sexual Exploitation

Dear Friends:

Below is a very interesting story about commercial sexual exploitation of children in Paraguay. Several different themes emerge: 1) The existence of familial pressure on children to enter and/or stay in prostitution, 2) how grinding poverty can erode the moral fiber of a society, 3) how normalized the demand for commercial sex can become -- like a run-of-the-mill fact of life that is not even questioned, 4) how prostituting adults can be completely ignored, even though they were likely once prostituting children too. Still, there is cause for hope. Clearly people recognize the problem commercial sexual exploitation of children/sex trafficking exists and are doing their best to make in a difference in the lives of as many girls as they can.

Abolition!

Lisa

RIGHTS-PARAGUAY:
NGO Offers Girls a Way Out of Sexual Exploitation

Natalia Ruiz Díaz

ASUNCIÓN, Aug 17 (IPS) - Claudia was 13 years old when she came to the capital of Paraguay from her small rural town. Just a few weeks after her arrival she was wandering the streets of downtown Asunción, a victim of sexual exploitation.

Her story replicates that of so many other girls and adolescents who every day fall into the clutches of child sex trade rings in Paraguay, one of the countries of Latin America where this heinous crime most flourishes.

Claudia* had left behind a broken and poverty-stricken family, encouraged by her older sister who was already living in Asunción. But her hopes for a better life vanished quickly and, as she found herself penniless and unprotected, she took to working the streets.

That was where she was found by Luna Nueva (New Moon), a non-governmental organisation that runs a comprehensive care programme for girls and adolescents victims of sexual exploitation, working both from its La Casa centre and through outreach activities conducted in the streets and brothels of Asunción.

"Approaching her was difficult, because Claudia had a special bond with her sister, who had been working in the sex trade for a long time
," Nidia Ríos, who works with Luna Nueva, told IPS.

The NGO has a team which goes out into the streets to identify girls and adolescents in situations of social risk. "Our task is to contact them and form a bond of trust. Then we tell them what Luna Nueva has to offer them," said Erika Almeida, who heads the team.

What it offers these girls is what they call a ‘multistage journey back to life,’ which takes about three years and is divided into five stages: welcome, integration, exploration, life plans and training for life.

Claudia agreed to stay at the organisation’s shelter and began the first stage of the process, called Kunu'u (which means ‘giving affection’ in Guarani).

At this stage, Luna Nueva conducts a psychological evaluation of the sexually exploited girl, explores her relationship with her family and assesses her school situation. These are then used to make a general diagnosis, establish the priorities in terms of care, and draw up a personalised plan, which is carried out over several months.

The rescued girls are offered the possibility of living at the centre - even bringing their children with them, in the case of young mothers
- or of continuing in the programme as external participants. The only requirement is that they get out of the sex trade. In exchange, they receive psychological counselling, are incorporated into some form of work and participate in activities that encourage them to express themselves.

When Luna Nueva finds them, many don’t even know how to read and write, and by gaining access to education, new opportunities open up for them and they establish a new relationship with their environment.

Claudia went back to school and slowly began rebuilding her relationship with her parents and siblings, which she had shied away from as she had been badly abused at home.

"The greatest obstacle is that these kids come from broken families, who don’t contribute to this process. The girls feel lonely, they need to receive affection, but they have no one," Ríos said.

There’s always the chance that they will leave the programme, and many times the girls’ own families - mired in poverty and a loss of values - are the ones that persuade them to drop out.

"Often, families are so concerned with their needs that they come to see prostitution as something natural, as a source of income, so the girls are forced to abandon the programme," Ríos explained.


Day and night, Luna Nueva workers comb the streets of Greater Asunción, in areas where prostitutes are known to work, also covering bus stations, truck stops and the central produce market.

Almeida explained that the girls who work in the market selling goods are often only able to sell their merchandise if they agree to have sex with the buyer. Many underage girls are also hired as domestics in what is actually a "front" for their subsequent sexual exploitation, according to a study conducted by the organisation in March.


The Luna Nueva counsellors inform the victims about the programme and how they can get in, and also carry out awareness-raising and prevention campaigns on the subject of sexual and reproductive health.

"If they don’t want to come with us, we try to establish and maintain a connection with them, supporting them from outside the programme with concrete activities," Almeida said.

Luna Nueva has been taking in girls aged 11 through 17 since 1995, when city authorities tried to get sex workers off the streets.
In Paraguay, prostitution is legal for adults 18 and older.

"A group of organised women who supported these workers were able to identify that a large number of them were girls and adolescents," Raquel Fernández, the director of Luna Nueva, told IPS.

That marked the birth of this NGO that focuses on protecting the rights of sexually exploited girls and adolescents. In 2008, Luna Nueva helped 36 girls and adolescents, along with 14 children belonging to some of the girls. Twenty-four of these girls are still in the programme, along with their 11 children.

Statistics reflecting a scandal

There are no official figures on the number of underage female victims of the sex trade in Paraguay, but a 2005 special report by the United Nations Children’s Fund (UNICEF) revealed that the phenomenon had reached alarming proportions in this country.

In Paraguay, two out of three sex workers are underage girls, child trafficking, prostitution and pornography are "tangible and widespread," and victims are generally initiated into the trade between the ages of 12 and 13. The vast majority of the girls who are exploited in Asunción come from outside the capital and have severed all ties with their families after suffering sexual or physical abuse at home.
[The commercial sexual expliotation of children goes hand-in-hand with legalized prostitution for "adults" . -- Lisa]


According to UNICEF, 98 percent of all sexually exploited girls receive six to 10 dollars for each sex act they perform. During a visit to Paraguay in 2004, then U.N. Special Rapporteur on the Sale of Children, Child Prostitution and Child Pornography, Juan Miguel Petit, said he was moved by the many accounts he heard from very young girls who prostituted themselves for a dollar or a meal.

And the child sex trade is not limited to Asunción. It happens throughout the country, reaching especially dramatic levels in Ciudad del Este, the capital of the province of Alto Paraná, in the southeast. This city – part of the Triple Frontier, where Paraguay meets both Brazil and Argentina - is plagued with illegal activities of all kinds.

A May 2002 assessment by the International Labour Organisation’s International Programme on the Elimination of Child Labour found some 650 sex workers in the streets of Ciudad del Este, 250 of whom were underage victims of prostitution and other forms of organised crime closely linked to the sex trade. The magnitude of the problem led the ILO to establish a special centre there to provide care for the victims.
[An interesting question to consider is how many of the 400 other prostituting persons began in the sex industry as children. -- Lisa]


In Paraguay the commercial sexual exploitation of underage boys and girls is fuelled by four factors that in turn feed on each other: poverty, inequality, social exclusion and a dominant patriarchal culture, according to the Latin American Centre for Experts on Child and Adolescent Exploitation, created in 2006 following the first regional forum held on this crime. [And the dominant patriarchal culture leads to the normalization demand -- a male sex-right to purchase sex. -- Lisa]


Paraguay is one of the poorest countries in South America, with 20 percent of its 6.1 million people living in extreme poverty - on less than a dollar a day - and another 36 percent below the poverty line.


This year, the National Council for Children and Adolescents (SNNA) revived the National Plan for the Prevention and Eradication of the Sexual Exploitation of Children and Adolescents that was launched in December 2003 but was then practically ignored.

Celeste Oudin, planning director at SNNA, told IPS that the purpose of the plan is to help focus the attention of the country’s institutions on this problem and to promote the adoption of measures aimed at protecting the rights of the victims.

But for now the SNNA lacks a direct intervention programme to address a crime that is scarcely viewed as reprehensible by society. It does however coordinate its actions with organisations such as Luna Nueva and the justice system.

The director admitted that it’s hard to deal with a problem that cannot be solved merely by pulling the exploited girls off the streets, and much less by arresting them, while "clients and pimps, for example, are not arrested."


For Oudin, exploitation exists because there is demand for sex with minors, so the solution lies in going after the exploiters - the clients and pimps - which would require interdisciplinary actions on multiple fronts.

But Luna Nueva director Fernández is optimistic about the possibility of establishing an efficient public policy to attack this scourge, based on political will and the combined efforts of public and private institutions.

Claudia’s case is also a sign of hope. Seven years after coming to Asunción and after spending four in the programme, where she came to realise that a different life was possible, she is now studying to become a nurse, is integrated into society and lives with an aunt near the capital.

The Luna Nueva counsellors said she gave it her all, fighting off pressure from her sister - the person she loved most in the world -, who never stopped insisting that she return to the streets.
It was very hard for her to rebuild her self-esteem and her relationship with her family, but today she keeps in touch with her parents and even visits them occasionally. "She’s a real success story and an example," one of the NGO's workers said.

* Her last name is omitted to preserve anonymity. (END/2009)

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